Did God Forget Me? (Psalm 9:12)

When people forget about you and your needs, it is a hurtful experience. It conveys the absence of love and concern. There are times in our lives when we face trials and difficulties and it appears as if God has forgotten us. We pray and ask for deliverance, but nothing happens. Has God forgotten us?

…he forgetteth not the cry of the humble. (Psalm 9:12)

God has not forgotten you. His love and concern has not been set aside and your life and its concerns have not been mislaid or lost. God has heard your cry, he knows the problems that you face and the heaviness in your heart that you carry because of it.

So, why doesn’t he answer? Why doesn’t he deliver? But he has and he will. God has heard your prayers and is providing the grace that you need. Many of learn the grace and truth go hand-in-hand. It seems that you cannot have the one without the other. God I want you exposed to truth concerning him and buy the truth he will be able to exercise grace in your life. Paul experienced this and wrote about it. God’s grace was sufficient for him because of his reliance on the truth of the power of Christ.

Until your actual deliverance comes, expose yourself to the word of God: read it, listen to the testimony of others, attend church services and listen to the preaching of God‘s word and God will begin working his grace in your life.

How long must you rely on this grace until the deliverance comes cannot be known. Remember as God works in the details of your life, he is also working in the lives of others. He wants to use grace in your life to shine as a light to the lost. He also may be working in the lives of others to bring them to repentance before he moves his hand in judgment or chastening. Until then, you must wait on him. Thankfully because of his grace, you will be able to endure.

…he forgetteth not the cry of the humble.

Love: The Missing Ingredient (Proverbs 10:12)

Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins. (Proverbs 10:12)

Why does love cover sin? Is there not a responsibility for the believer to point out the error of another? Did not Paul tell us to mark the man that causes division (Romans 16:17)? If so, then is it not contradictory to admonish us to cover sin?

As believers, there are two relationships that we must consider: our relationship with others and their relationship with God. Regardless of what we do for either relationship, it should always be motivated by love. When a believer falls into sin, our actions towards them should reflect God’s love in us. If The Lord leads us to provide admonishment, then we are instructed to do it in love (2 Thessalonians 3:15). However this aspect of love goes beyond the scope of the proverb in question.

Proverbs 10:12 admonishes us to cover the sins of another with love. It is the latter part of the verse referring to hatred and strife. Just as hatred in the heart of a person focuses on issues and stirs up trouble with those around them, love does its perfect work. It contrasts hate in that instead of focusing on self and the hurts that have caused hatred, love focuses on others and the needs that they have in order to live successfully. This act of love should not be confused with the putting on of a loving face and acting in a loving manner, but all the while experiencing other emotions in the heart. There is too much of this in Christianity today. It is nothing more than hypocrisy or the playing of a part as one on a stage. The spiritual person will abide in love (John 15:9-12) and this love will be manifested in how he treats others and in particular, those who have sinned against him.

Parents should not allow the sin of their children to affect their relationship with them as well as brothers and sisters, husband and wife and fellow believers. There is a difference between condoning sin and covering it. When sin is covered, it cannot be recognized. Does your relationship with others reflect that their sin is covered or are there actions and attitudes that indicate there is trouble between you and another? If so, then love is absent. You can get it by dwelling in God. There are not three quick steps to complete, but instead a heart condition that needs to occur. By sitting at the feet of he who is love personified, you will gain this much needed virtue for your life.

Hatred Stirs Up Strife (Proverbs 10:12)

Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins (Proverbs 10:12)

I walked out on my back porch one day and noticed that all of the little birds were congregating in a small bush like tree. Their chirping was distinctly different than at other times and the branches of the plant seemed to tremble. I was wondering what could be causing these birds to behave in this manner when suddenly a hawk swooped down into the yard and landed on the rail of the neighbor’s fence. Just the overall presence of this hawk in the area caused the birds to behave as they did.

In a similar fashion, hatred does the same thing. When hatred rests in the heart of a person, a stirring occurs with the people with whom they interact. It is not difficult to recognize that if a person hates another, there will be strife between the two, but it goes beyond that. Hatred in the heart of a person controls that person and will affect their entire demeanor. It will affect their actions towards those that they hate as well as those that they love and because of this hatred, their relationship and interactions with others will be grating. Just as food items can be grated or abrasively torn, people with hatred will act abrasively towards others. When this occurs, strife is experienced by all.

Granted, these people may have hatred in their hearts because of abusive relationships, domestic troubles, financial ruin, health struggles and the list can go on, but their actions are still unwarrented. Christ, our sufficiency, should enable us to deal with all of life’s struggles and enable us to deal properly with others in the midst of the greatest of hurts.

The answer for those who stir up strife in relationships with others is not necessarily to give them a rebuke–although their sin does require it–but to recognize what may be the cause of their hurt, which has led to hatred, and then lead them to experience victory over it. Until this occurs, strife will continue to be present, others will be hurt, sin will continue to occur and God will be robbed of the glory that he deserves.

Do you continually have strife with many people? If so, you may be the cause of this strife? Instead of defending yourself, stop and ask The Lord to put his finger upon the root problems in your life that are moving you to such strife. If you seek, you will find and when you find, you must begin to deal with those issues. As you gain victory over these hurts, your experiences with others will become more pleasant and life will become enjoyable.

Gaining Understanding (Proverbs 2:9)

I don’t understand why God has allowed this to happen. It does not make any sense. It’s useless. Have you heard these terms before? Have you said these or similar words? One of my favorite songs that we sang in the nursing home ministry back in the early 80’s was Someday, He’ll Make It Plain To Me. There are some situations in life that we will not be able to understand until we get to the other side in glory, but there are many times that we will be able to make sense of events that do not seem to make sense. How we can gain this ability is found in Proverbs chapter two.

Then shalt thou understand righteousness, and judgment, and equity; yea, every good path.
(Proverbs 2:9)

There is a blessing to be received for memorizing scripture, but as with all spiritual blessings it is dependent on the condition of the heart and not the action performed. When I was the principal of a Christian school, we had children memorize a portion of scripture each month. It was a mandatory obligation for which many waited until the end of the month to achieve. For those who did the task out of obligation, I believe that they received little or no benefit from the task because Proverbs 2:1-2 indicates that those receiving and hiding the word of God as a treasure are doing so in the hope of gaining wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Scripture memory out for obligation purposes falls short of this.

God later promises to those, whose hearts are crying out or seeking him as a hid treasure, that they will gain and find what they seek and also gain protection from God. It is after this that God shares that the result of receiving God’s word as a treasure will bring an understanding of every good path. From this we can be confident that if there is a way to know and understand God’s ways, it is through hiding God’s word in the heart of a person truly seeking him.

Being Poor Brings A Blessing (Matthew 5:3)

Blessed are the poor in spirit:for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5:3

Bad attitude, strong willed, heavy handed, and high minded are all terms that we have heard and to some degree understand. However understanding the term poor in spirit is another story. Sometimes to understand a term it may be best to consider the opposite. By doing this, it can shed light on the original meaning.

The opposite of poor in spirit is rich in spirit. When a person is rich, they, in a simplified definition, are considered as having all the resources necessary to do whatever they please. A person who is rich in spirit will be self willed to do and act in any manner that they desire. However, a person who is poor in spirit will see themselves as inept or unable to do or be as he wishes. This is how you and I were when we came to Christ. We formerly were self willed, independent and running our own lives, but by the sovereign work of God and the calling of the Holy Spirit, we came to a point where we recognized ourselves as weak, hopeless and beggars before God. When we did, we finally trusted Christ and the richness of his salvation and the presence of his spirit in our hearts made us supremely blessed. However, the position of poor in spirit is not simply for salvation.

When a person is poor in spirit, he chooses to empty himself. Just as Christ emptied himself to become man or he submitted the free working of his divinity to his father, we too must empty ourselves and submit ourselves to the father. We do this when we recognize that we don’t have any rights and we determine that for our lives, we don’t have any say.

Paul exemplifies this in II Corinthians 12:11: I am become a fool in glorying; ye have compelled me: for I ought to have been commended of you: for in nothing am I behind the very chiefest apostles, though I be nothing. Mark records Jesus as saying, And whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all. (Mark 10:44)

The secret to the blessed life is always contrary to worldly wisdom. The secret to getting, is giving, the secret to living is dying and the secret to success with happiness is to give up or to give up on yourself and submit to God.

Do you want to be happy? Then see yourself as poor and dependent on God and he will bring blessings to your heart.

Pride Versus Hope (Psalm 131)

The enemy of hope is pride. It is a proud heart that raises itself up in trying to deal with matters too lofty for itself. It is a proud heart that refuses to adjust its behavior to what The Lord wants. As a dependent child submits himself to his nurturing mother, a prideful heart will not stand in awe before God and submit itself to him and his plan. A prideful heart cannot and will not wait on The Lord.

Trouble waiting on the Lord reveals a prideful heart that wants to take over. As anxiety builds, so is pride. A person resists submitting to God because they have already submitted to their own pride.

Pride still comes before the fall (Proverbs 16:18). Pride is not confined to the act of looking down at others. It is the attitude that people have after their hearts have been deceived into thinking that they can handle matters greater than their ability. Whether it be sin, raising children, managing finances, work, or any other area of life makes no difference. Pride moves man into the driver’s seat of his life and as long as he remains there, he will not experience hope.

Man does not need to do anything to get hope. He simply needs to remove himself and his prideful heart from the plan. When he does, The Lord takes over and with him comes hope.

You Need To Wait And Wait (Psalm 130:5)

Make sure that you wait and wait. Yes, wait and wait! For the Christian there are two aspects of waiting in his life. Regardless of how difficult life may become, The Lord wants you to wait and wait.

I wait for the Lord, my soul doth wait, and in his word do I hope. (Psalm 130:5)

One aspect of waiting is found in the word hope. Hope is not something that a person desires or hopes will possibly one day happen. Hope is the expectancy of what we know will happen and is yet to come. We have the hope of casting off our mortality and putting on immortality. We have the hope of the Lord’s return, heaven, seeing The Lord, ruling and reigning with him, the wiping away of all tears and countless other promises in Scripture. These things will take place as promised, but until then, we need to patiently endure. When we patiently endure, we are hoping.

Another aspect of waiting is found in the term “wait”. To wait comes from the word that means “to bind together” or “to collect”. By waiting, a believer holds himself back from anxiously trying to solve the problems in life and allows The Lord to handle them. Philippians states it as, “Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.” In today’s terms we could say to those trying to deliver themselves from the struggles of life, “Get a hold of yourself!” A famous addictions recovery program has captured the phrase, “Let go and let God.” What these phrases have in common is that an individual needs to stop trying and wait on God.

Ask yourself, “am I holding myself back from trying to deliver myself? Am I anxiously trying to bring about answers to my own prayers? Am I accomplishing God’s will in my own power or by my own efforts? If so, you need to WAIT for what God has determined to be your hope and WAIT on God by getting ahold of yourself and stop seeking deliverance by your flesh.